To Former Crushes, Friends, and the Other Guys from High School

It's been a little over a year since graduation. Most of us will be returning to college or work soon. Here is some nostalgia and advice.
First of all, why did you date younger girls or those at other schools? There were plenty of great girls here who would have dated you. Second of all, you know that girl you met at college who you hope is thinking about you right now? You didn't show her the real you, did you? If you did, great.
If not, does she know... That one time you sent a video through Airplay for the class to see that shouldn't have been shared? That you built an ice boat during the snowpacalypse because you were bored? That you spent plenty of time playing shark games on the iPad? That we didn't really have a senior prank but you and a friend forked the football field and he took the blame? That you sang in front of everyone during prom because your crush was there? That everyone loved the false persona that you created, but we would have loved the real you maybe even more?
Be real with that girl. If she's worth keeping, then she will accept you as you are.
Keep in touch. It shouldn't matter when the last time was that we talked. If you need friends, plenty of us are still here for you.
Thanks for reading.
Sincerely,
One of Your Girls

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